Submission can take the form of passivity or obedience in relation to any aspect of conduct and behavior. I need someone to be able to restrain me with just a calm word or a glance. For example, a woman may adopt a submissive role during a sexual activity to overcome a sexual inhibition she may have. Female submission can take the form of engaging in sexual activity with a person other than her normal partner, as in the case of swinging sometimes called wife swapping or prostitution. Surely everyone should be free to indulge their kinks without shame or judgment, regardless of gender? I want to let go and know that my needs will be met. In fact, any act that is performed on a passive woman, such as undressing her, may be regarded as submissive behavior on the part of the woman.